Growth is vital for us to be able to enjoy to the fullest the various areas of our lives and utilize the gifts and blessings that God has provided us with so we become blessed and become His instruments to bless others.
You have to want to grow!
Growth
is and must be intentional. It does not just happen
in a split second or by saying it.
In order for one to grow, one must have the
drive and purpose to grow. Growth for humans is much like growth for plants and
animals. If we want to grow we have to “cathect” or invest time for our growth
so we could enjoy what life has to offer; otherwise, we would just grow old wild
and in survival fashion or timid and restrained.
Cathect in yourself. Sit down and talk to
yourself---know what you want, you love, and you can do about them. Appreciate yourself
and know the power inside you. Once you start the ball rolling, you would just
be surprised one day how far you have gone and how much the ball has accumulated
and how big it has become.
Be determined to grow. Start, no matter how
small or big the step is. Just start, and consistently work out your
improvement. Day by day by day by day.
Imagine lying on your deathbed and
recapping the days you have lived. Would you want to see days that are empty or
not spent with your loved ones or doing the things you wish you have done? Or would
you want to see days that are filled with meaningful and joyful memories with
your loved ones doing the things you love, visiting places together, fighting
for the causes you believe in, having the means to help your loved ones and the
underprivileged, eating your favorite food, and achieving your goals?
Growing old with time without developing in
maturity is like walking aimlessly in the jungle. You don’t know the time and
where you are. It is enough to just get by each day and handle anything that
comes along. No drive. No plan. No goal. No direction. Just fate at work.
Anything-goes life could seem appealing.
But let us not be selfish just thinking about ourselves surviving each day and
taking pride on it. Let us also think about our loved ones who would be glad
seeing us well and enjoying the gift of life with them. Think about your
parents, your spouse, your children, and especially God who gave us all we need—which
we just need to tap in order to utilize them.
Think about the life you wish to have!
Choose
the area where you want to grow. Just one thing at
a time, to surely get things right. Focus on it. Visualize it. Act upon it. Constantly
make short-term plans and achieve them, and work them out on a daily basis.
Assess yourself. Put your evaluation in
writing so you can keep track of your passion and effort and so you know where
to press on each time trials try to dishearten you.
If the area you want to improve on months
ago no longer thrills you nor develop into something bigger that tickles your
imagination, it means you’re not doing much. If you feel that there’s something
wrong or that your boat is sinking , it only says that you’re not done yet.
Use others’ lives as challenges and
inspiration; but never compare yourself with them. Your competition is only
yourself. Beat yourself daily!
Take heart! Pray. Stay in the boat and row
slowly, but don’t stop. God has given us everything we need so we can overcome and grow.
Always remind yourself of your purpose why
you decided or wanted to grow on the first day of the process. Your purpose is
what keeps things together when they tend to fall apart.
In times of struggle, bow in God’s majesty
and let God do things for you. Let God use you. Just trust in Him completely,
do your best, and he will surely do the rest so you may bring glory and honor
to His name.
Share
your vision and have a mentor. Share your goal with
the people who care most about you. They will help and guide you. They will be
frank with you when you need a feedback or be proud of you when you deserve an
appreciation.
Stay away from hushers. They will blur your
vision and lose your focus.
Have the humility to accept that things
will be easier when done with a helping hand, and acknowledge the fact that
there are people who are better than us. Go to them, listen to them and learn
from them.
When you have a person or set of persons
who support you, there will always be people who will catch your back and cheer
you on. You will have prayer warriors and willing ears to listen to your
journey. Sometimes this people are so much into your improvement that you just
have no other choice but to move forward and upwards.
Growth is vital for us to be able to enjoy
to the fullest the various areas of our lives and utilize the gifts and
blessings that God has provided us with so we become blessed and become His
instruments to bless others.
Growth brings good physical health,
emotional maturity, mental soundness, stable financial capacity, and more
importantly sound and healthy spiritual life.
Why live in worries and deprivation when
you can live in joy and overflow?
Discover and enjoy your blessings! Decide
to GROW!
Shine! Be the light that inspires others.
