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“Which
is sweeter—love or sugar?”
I chuckled upon hearing that kindergartish
question. The words are fundamental and the tone innocent that it appeared witty
for me.
The statement hovered in my head. I wasn’t
sure why the guy asked it. What I’m sure of is it made me think like a
six-year-old who just saw her crush playing with another girl along the
corridor.
I thought to myself, “Love’s sweetness goes
beyond the taste buds. It flows down the heart and stimulates the senses.”
The munchkin in me retorted, “Sugar is
forever sweet while love sometimes gives bitterness. Touché!”
Love or sugar. Flower or chocolates. Home-cooked
dinner or fancy 12-course dinner date. Massage by your bare hands or Swedish
massage in a hotel.
Whatever your dominant love language is—words
of affirmation, service, gifts, quality time, or physical touch—the important
thing is you express your true feelings out of joy and with sincerity… fine,
with real love.
Don’t worry if you’re still a student,
unemployed, or just not as wealthy as the other guy. Girls, ladies, women—whatever
body type we have at the moment (because we, I for one, don’t grow old, only
mature with age *winks)—what matters to us is the thought and the deliberateness
of actions of our significant others’ expression of love.
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It’s not how much money you spend for the surprise,
rather, how much of yourself you put in it.
Love or sugar?
Uhm, like a dark chocolate or a kiwi-strawberry smoothie, love’s bumps
and dents and even heartbreaks, or the other sources of bitterness or sweet-lemonading, are what make love’s taste just right…
It's the numerous feelings, tastes, and colors that love brings and teaches that make the next moment or next romance or next relationship better tasting and vibrant. It's the quintessence your expression of love and the authenticity of your feelings still weigh more to a she-heart.
It's the numerous feelings, tastes, and colors that love brings and teaches that make the next moment or next romance or next relationship better tasting and vibrant. It's the quintessence your expression of love and the authenticity of your feelings still weigh more to a she-heart.
I’ll go for love. It may not be forever
sweet, but it sure does not cloy your appetite and melt your icing to waste or
harden your boring caramel to death.
Five sure things:
1. Telling us the basic “thank you”
“sorry” “I love you” “you are special” is a very good way to hearts. (Words)
2. Surprising us with your simple personally
cooked food, whatever its taste, makes you better looking. (Service)
3. Grabbing anything for us on your
way home, like as grand as a sachet of coffee or as fancy a hand sanitizer, is
like watering our blooming hearts. (Gift)
4. Sitting beside us as we watch
TV, waiting for us in the salon, or accompanying in the department store—whether
you’re just acting you’re awake or enjoying or cool with it or not—makes you a
bodyguard, correction, a security blanket which makes us feel safe. (Time)
5. Simple gestures as wrapping your
arms around us while watching TV, holding our hands while crossing the street,
stroking our hair to sleep just make you seem like a gentle wingless angle. (Touch)
So simple to express love, right?
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Us women are particular and feely like that in varying
degrees. Some of us just don’t admit it, but there is that someone inside us
who still wants to feel special no matter how nagger, hysterical,
dominant, snooty, nonchalant, cool, we may seem.
Besides, when you're in love you don't run out of ways to express your feelings—simple or grand—and you always feel excited, tireless, and unremitting expressing what you feel just for the other feel loved and special.
Being in love is feeling limitless.
Know the love language, you will get the
right measurement of love’s sweetness in different situations and days and
moods and…
We seem complicated because men give us that label, but
we’re not.
We are simple. We just want “you” in it.
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